People in Bali are hospitable and friendly. MY man and I discussed these traits at length, in an effort to distinguish Thai friendliness from that of the Balinese, and we came to the conclusion that Thais are still more on business-like friendly. Not the Balinese. They really stop to talk to you, and really appear to be interested in you. MY man said they're genuinely friendly, emphasis on the genuine. You chat with them and you get this sense of belonging, like you are a part of their warm community, and not a stranger. They introduce themselves, shake your hand, and ask you your name in turn. Everywhere you go, the Balinese (with the exception of the hawkers, I have to add) greet you with this amiable smile on their faces as they call out a hearty "Hello!"
The Balinese are also very helpful. Even in the rural areas where they could hardly speak a word of English, they try their best to help lost tourists. One even got his motorbike out and drove ahead of us for like two to three kilometers just to lead us to the place we wanted to go. Then on a couple of incidents, we witnessed two motorbike accidents where quick as a flash, pedestrians and onlookers rushed to help the motorists like they were their own family members.
One thing that really stood out in comparison to Bangkok, or Thailand for that matter, was the Balinese' use of helmets. Real ones. It's either the police are very strict about it, or they are really just concerned about their safety. A majority of them use motorcycles, and most of them stay on the motorbike lane. Sure there were a few strays who wove in and out through mainstream traffic, and a handful who instead of wearing helmets, were using their udeng, but for me who comes from a place where people don fake helmets to "comply" with the law, it was quite impressive to see the majority using real helmets! Even the little ones who ride with them have their own helmets, too!
Visiting photographers, I imagine, really have a blast taking pictures of the people of Bali. The Balinese are very comfortable around cameras--when you ask to take their picture, they're only too happy to oblige. MY man didn't know this. The first time he spotted an interesting subject--the man in charge of parking near the volcano viewpoint, he asked me for 1,000 rupiah. He was going to offer the Balinese money in exchange for a few snapshots. Turned out he didn't have to. The guy readily agreed and smiled into the camera.
Here's a picture of him and the rest of the faces of Bali:




5 comments:
I love those pictures of those two boys (the last two).
That's what I like about Bali too. Before I went there, I thought it would be a consumer tourist trap. But they managed to keep their identity and culture despite progress and development.
yayyyy!!! i'm so happy!! thank you for sharing :) daw feeling ko lang ato man ko to. Reading along I made a conclusion, maybe pinoys are something in between? i mean ang parti sa pagka friendly sang Balinese kag Thais..hehe
I LOVE the photos! They look so alive to me. Kag baaaawww..ka pisan mag blog! will keep reading....
Toe, those pictures are my favorites, too! MY man did a good job with those boys who happily posed for him! :D
My name is Anne, thank you too for being always there to read my posts! :D Just wish I have more time (and more inspiration) to share more stories. ;D
Regarding friendliness and hospitality, it's kind of hard to point out where Pinoys belong. I mean we can be really friendly and hospitable, but only mostly to people we already know. With strangers it's a completely different story. Maybe that explains why not so many tourists visit our country.
aaaahhh...good point from someone who's been around!! huo no..but i want to believe it's not out of indifference nga indi kita friendly sa foreigners. i think it's out of shyness :) im first in line sa dira nga qualification.
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