Monday, August 18, 2008

Visa Blues 2

One thing about not being in your own country, even if you're old and sick, you still have to come to the Immigration.  I mused out loud to My man, as we stood outside the Immigration Building, at seven-thirty yesterday morning. Ahead of us on the queue, was an elderly couple. The man, perhaps in his late seventies, was on a wheelchair, and his wife, about his age, pushed him towards the chairs.  Good thing they were allowed entry into the building, to sit down and wait there, while the rest of us, lined up outside the door. 

Like I said last year (see this post), you never know what to expect when you arrive at the Immigration. Last year, I got to be the third person on a line in front of the counter where they give out queue numbers, but that was inside the building.  This time, we had to queue outside the door, and wait for them to open it, which they did a few minutes after the flag-raising at eight am.  As soon as they opened the doors, everybody scrambled in to line up again at the counter, to get our queue numbers.  My number:  909.  10 persons waiting ahead of me.

The waiting gave me and My man some time to talk.  It's very seldom that we get to talk uninterrupted by a little Roo.  My man planned his strategies for next year's visa renewal:  Since he wakes up early, he'd go ahead and make sure he's first on the line, get a number, then I can just come later (they open the offices at 8:30 am and start calling numbers around nine am anyways.)  We discussed several business opportunities that could be  feasible around and inside the Immigration.  Breakfast is one.  We surmised most people who were there early, like us, didn't have time to eat.  Photocopy and photograph services is another. There's always one more document that you forget to photocopy, and your old ID picture may not pass their scrutiny.  Or maybe A Queue Number to Your Liking business!  We'll hire someone to be there early, get as many numbers as possible for all kinds of visa needs, and provide them to people at a fee!  That would work for people like me who'd pay for a few more winks of sleep :D Another thing that would definitely reap profits is a parking lot.  Parking at the Immigration is next to impossible when you get there late.  You'll just have to drive around and around the parking lot until you get lucky and somebody drives out.

Sigh. Why is it that when you're waiting, time ticks by ever so slowly?  My man had already run out of things to talk about, and got himself busy with his phone game.  I craned my neck to check on the officers--they were all seated at their desks, behind their brand-new computers, all looking busy.  The woman on my right was leafing through her documents, over and over, every now and then checking on the electronic device in front of us, to see if it's working.  Right next to her, was a dark-haired boy, about two years old, whining for one more treat from his mom.  There was a black guy in front of us sitting and talking quietly with a Thai lady.  Beside them, sat a family of Caucasians.  The mom was constantly playing referee between her little boy and his sister, who were amusing themselves by taking turns tickling each other's neck.

Number nine hundred.  Counter number 20.  The electronic device finally found its voice!  It was now nine am.  The lady beside me, obviously an agent processing visas for other people, had left her seat a while back and gone ahead to talk to the officers without being called.  A tall, white man in his flip-flops came and sat down.  I glanced at his passport.  Deutsche.  His number: 958.

Photographs, check.  Photocopies: Marriage contract, passport, birth certificate, Thai ID, house registration, check.  Map!  See, I told you.  I can never get all these documents right.

Nine hundred nine.  Counter number 21.  My man and I greeted the officer with a wai, and handed her our documents.  She gave My man an A4 paper and asked him to draw a map indicating where we live.  She checked the family pictures we submitted and compared them with her file of last year's pictures.  Hmm, they can monitor my little Roo's growth here. Sign here, sign there.  You pay 1900 baht khah. Stamp, stamp. She gave me back my passport and on it: 16 September 2008.  I am to go back next month for the results.

Whew! My man and I chuckled in relief as we drove away and this black Honda Accord behind us swiftly drove into the precious parking spot. 

Monday, August 4, 2008

Roo Turns Three

For his birthday, I suggested that instead of having a birthday party with friends, we can have a simple family dinner and use the party money to share food and stuff with orphans.  Roo readily agreed.  But there's one thing he's been asking for quite a while now:  Mommy, can I have a violin when I'm three?

Daddy E and I happily bought him one.  From the time we bought the instrument, if at all possible, he doesn't want to part with his violin.  Even brought it with him on the bed for his afternoon nap.  His daddy taught him how to hold and use the bow, and he has since been diligently practicing.  

Happy Birthday our dear Roo!

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Mom of a Kind


She would have been 61 today.  If things went as planned, we would have been at the beach in Boracay, celebrating her birthday with the family.  She had been asking for a family reunion, and we were working on the details of having one in December, when my brother would be home for his vacation.  She had been excitedly saving for a trip to Europe in April next year.  Yup, had she a choice, mommy would still have fought and negotiated for a few more years to live her dreams and make sure her family is secure in the Lord.

Well, sixty years, eleven months, and thirteen days were all she was granted.  Oh but them 60 yrs, 11 mos, and 13 days were lived to the fullest to the very last second of her life!  Mommy was a very conscientious daughter to her parents, a true (word not mine, but her brother's) sister to her siblings, a faithful and devoted wife to our dad, a protective and loving mother to us, her children, and a doting grandmother to Roo, her bugoy grandson.

My mom became my best friend, my confidante sometime in my college days. I remember making it a point to go home as often as I could on weekends so I can spend time with my parents.  I guess in a way, that was to make up for all the lost time in high school, when just like any other teenager, I didn't want to hang out, or be seen with my folks.  When I came to Thailand to work after I graduated, my mom painstakingly wrote me long handwritten letters, updating me of news from home and encouraging me in my endeavors. I in turn snail-mailed her pages and pages of my adventures and experiences in the Land of Smiles. In between letters, I called home and the telephone company gained thousands of baht from my homesickness and long talks with my mother.

Mommy was always there for us, our refuge and stronghold in times of trouble.  She was not the affectionate, expressive of mother but we never doubted her strong love for us.  When she became a lola (grandmother) however, a major transformation in my mom unfolded before my eyes.  Her apo (grandson) showered her with hugs and kisses, and in time, my mom loosened up and became comfortable returning the hugs and kisses.  When Roo started talking and said "I love you lola" to her, she answered him with her own sweet "I love you too" without any of the old awkwardness and uneasiness.  She adored her little bugoy and according to my brother who lived with them, talked nonstop about Roo's doings and antics, to them and to anybody who will listen.  She was proud of her apo and I'm thankful that in her last few years, she tasted the sweetness and knew the joys of being a lola.